30 Day Challenge Day 1

This isn't a relationship challenge. This is a more "about me" challenge I guess. Again it's a 30 day one, and I figure that if I do this, by the time I'm done, I'll be getting ready for when James comes. I tried doing it just on Twitter and I completely forgot a few days, so I figure if I write it on my blog I'll be able to remember it easier. Sorry if challenges annoy you, but at least I'd be posting something every day. Plus you'll learn more about me.

Anyway, here's Day One:

Five Ways to Win Your Heart

1. Be yourself. This sounds cliché, but it's true. If you're a fake ass, and lie to me about things from the beginning just to impress me, then your true self comes out later, it's not cool. Guys hate when girls are fake, so don't be a fake yourself.
2. Be honest. I can't stand guys who lie to cover their own ass. How do you expect a girl to ever give you her all and trust you if you just keep lying to them whenever you do something stupid? And if you really loved her, you wouldn't do those stupid things or treat her like shit.
3. If you are a nice, romantic guy, and not the fake romance either. I need romance, and if a guy just refuses to give me flowers, well then that proves to me he doesn't listen to what I really want even after I blatantly ask for it. Think of cute ways to surprise me rather than buying me elaborate gifts. And don't just buy me gifts on occasions, think of me randomly through the year like if you are in a store and see something I might like. I enjoy surprises.
4. Make me feel like you actually want to see me and spend time with me, and put the time and effort into a relationship. Initiate going on a date, for example, you be the one to be like “hey babe let's go out” rather than me having to say that all the time. Basically, don't make me feel like I'm doing everything to keep us together. Each person needs to put 100%, but if one of them is only putting 50%, it makes the other person feel that the relationship is one-sided.
5. Accept my past, encourage my present and support my future. I'll do the same for you. Unless of course, you're doing something real stupid like got into drugs or cheated on me. And same as if I started doing things you didn't approve of, then the relationship probably wouldn't work out.