Something you feel strongly about:
That things happen in life for a reason. Sometimes those reasons don't make sense, and at the time we're wondering "omg why did this happen, I hate life" etc. Sometimes we may never figure out the real reason. Sometimes when a relative or someone close to us passes away whether prematurely or naturally, for a while we forget about "reasons" and just concentrate on our pain of missing the person. I've lost people close to me, and I still miss them. And when I hear about death and tragic things happening, sometimes I wonder why. I don't have the answers for everything, and I'm not saying I do. But I don't really want to get into that complicated topic.
I know that James came into my life for a reason. I finally found my soulmate, well he found me. God brought him to me because He knew that we could make this LDR work, and that James' personality would be good with mine. He knew that James was my soulmate all along. It just took a while to find him.
And I think all the hurt I've been through before, helped me to get stronger for this relationship. Each time I was hurt by a guy, I learned something new. Plus it showed me what I like and don't like in boyfriends. Also, dating different guys rather than just one guy the whole time gives me an advantage because I've been in different situations, so I can relate to most people who are going through things in relationships.
Anyway, so far most things in my life have happened and led to something better, aka a reason for that bad thing happening. Each new thing a person faces is a new learning experience, whether or not they see it at the time. Sometimes the pain of a bad situation can interfere with one's ability to think clearly. I've been through those situations as well. Like, when I dated guys I thought I really liked, then they broke up with me, I was like "omg whhyy" and then later on realize that something or other wasn't right in the relationship and it's a good thing that it ended.
Same as when friendships have ended. Even if at the time you were fighting, they said things to hurt you and you don't know why they said that particular thing, it'll make you stronger in the end especially if you don't retaliate to their level by calling them names or saying mean things back to them.
Right now my life is at a pretty good place. I have an amazing LDR boyfriend who I'm going to meet in 31 days, I have a good family, a job, and friends. I might not have much of a social life of going out every night or every weekend like most people my age do, but meh, I'd rather stay in to talk to my boyfriend anyway. And so far, everything that has happened, or at least most things, have all led up to this in some way or another.
That was a long, rambly post for a challenge, but hey, it's something I feel strongly about.
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