You know the girls that say all guys are assholes because they dated a few of them? Well those girls are fucking shallow idiots. Just saw someone on twitter post "You're stupid if you think he's only talking to you". Sorry that you had bad luck with asshole guys cheating on you, but you have no right to judge every guy just because of that. And you have no idea what every guy is like in a relationship.
It's probably some dumb teenager who wrote that, who's dated one or two guys for a few months at a time and then considers herself an expert on relationships. You want to know my list of guys? Well here it is: (not counting relationships in high school because I did nothing with them that made it count as a real relationship, my first serious relationship started after I graduated high school)
1st: Aug 2007 - Mar 2009
2nd: June 2009 - Nov 2009/Feb 2010 (we broke up once then he thought we were back together even though I didn't confirm it to him and wasn't interested in getting back with him)
3rd: May 2010 - Jan 2011
4th: July 2011 - July 2012 (he broke up with me a day before our one year anniversary, yeah thanks)
5th: Nov 2012 - Dec 2012
6th: Oct 2013 - present
Out of those guys, two of them were total assholes (the first two). The next few after that were decent guys, although we had our differences so it obviously didn't work out. Pretty sure only the first two cheated on me, the others did not. But, after the last guy broke up with me in December 2012, I was single for 10 months to just chill and by that point I was ready to wait until I found the right guy. And I wasn't even looking for a relationship when James came into my life. I know he's the one, and thanks to fate (and God) I've found my soulmate. I've never felt this way before despite the other guys I dated before him.
James lives in another country, and we haven't met in person yet, so that must automatically mean that he's been talking to other girls even if he says he isn't. Dear girl who said that we're stupid if we think he's only talking to us: it's called trust, and I don't trust people easily. They have to prove themselves loyal and he has not given me any red flags. Believe me, I know what red flags are as I experienced them myself when those two guys cheated on me. But does that mean I put all guys in the same asshole category? No.
I'm really glad I gave James a chance to come into my life, he makes all things better and I can't wait to meet him in 65 days <3 I know it'll be the best time of my life.
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